Thursday, 30 July 2009

Sissy!!

I've got two sisters..
I'm the hey!-I'm-the oldest one-you know one..
There's Vany, she's the not confident-awkward-panicking one..
And there's Mira, she's the whatever-I want to do one..

When we were younger..
we're not that close to one another..
Still competing to get my parent's love and care..
Don't need our sisters yet..lol

When we grew older..
we got closer and closer..
Sharing stories..
Feelings..
Emotions..
Needed more support from our sisters then..
Mom and dad were 'against' us..lol
In our minds back then..
They always think and believe that they know what's best for us..
They just don't understand..
They lived in a different era of time..
Yeah..right, girls..lol

Aah..Puberty..
Boyfriends..
Parties..
My parents were flipping out
Especially my dad..

The more they flip out..
The more we stick together..
Rules..
Time curfew..
Manners..
Attitude..
The way you dress..
The way you speak..
The way you respect your elders..
The way you treat people around you..
The way you do at school..

My dad was the meanest
when it comes to giving speech on what we did wrong..
The reasons we thought was ridiculous, back then..
It goes straight to your heart..
No mercy..
And it effects you..
For the rest of your life..
Painful..
Shatter your heart
into itsy bitsy pieces..
Exaggerating?
Just check with my sisters..
They'll back me up 100%

And we were the nicest daughters ever..
We always did whatever he told us..
Obeyed him all the way..
So it ended us..
cried on each others shoulders..
pissed off in each others room..
pouring our heart out..
Yeah..you know..
Dramatizing everything..

And when we mostly don't feel like sharing..
when we kept it to ourselves..
You just can feel their sympathy running through..
and you feel warm..
just to know that..

Getting more older..
Having serious boyfriends and all..
Us-sisters had live together without our parents around..
So,
We watched each others back..
We went through our hardest problem ever..
But, we also had fun..
Movie week, eating in, dining out, going out, hanging out..
Not all the time..occasionally..
And the good thing with sisterhood is..
It doesn't matter!
You'll always have your sister!
No matter how you screwed up..

Now,
Being married and all..
Well, 2 of us..
Mira is still a bit tangled up..
She's back living with my parents after not living with them for quite some time..
And you can imagine what that means..
LOL..my poor lil sissy..
Hang in there sis..

We don't hang out as much..
Quite rare, unfortunately..
But we try like crazy to get together..
And every time we do it..
It's so breathtaking..
How our kids click together..
Cousins!!
How cool is that..
Hoping they 'get along' forever..

Hey, by the way, daddies..
could you watch them for a while..
So mommies and auntie Mira
can sneak away..
and get some sister time..
Let's go girls!!

1 comment:

  1. How's wonderful and lovely life that I never had Sis...thanks God you have great family and hoping you n your sister always get His Blessing......
    Rina

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