Which one's worse?

Have you ever got cut offed by someone..

Or
Have you ever got to deal cutting off someone..
Which one feels worse?
Which one is easier to go through?

Cutting of someone
It sounded really cold-hearted..
Even though when you did it,
You’ve already considered everything..
And unfortunately this is the only way to deal with it..

It sounded so unfair..
To reach to a decision by ourselves, without talking about it before with the person who’s involved

But, we’ve considered everything
And at the moment, in the end..it’s the best thing to do..

Though you know all the risk that will happen..
The hatred that you’ll get from the ones involved..
The questions that people will ask of your decision..
You still have to do it..

Now let’s put ourselves on the other side..
Being cut offed
Is a awfully terrible thing to deal with..
You didn’t see where it came from..
You have no idea when did it come..
It just hits you..
Like a lightning in the middle of a bright sunny day..
Because you’re not prepared for it, either you instantly collapse and die..but you don’t feel a thing..
Or..
You’re still standing strong, a bit wobbly but you’ll manage..and it hurts like crazy..

But, if you’re strong enough to get up again..
If you’re smart enough to think it again..
It’s not the end of the world..
Life goes on..
That was just not meant for you..
Yours is still there waiting for you to take it..
That was just one thing out of -I don’t know- many things that you have to go through to get to yours..

So, I have always believed that everything happens for a reason..
There’s no such thing as coincidence..
It’s all in a huge master plan..
That’s life..
You gotta take all the goods with all the bads..
Grateful for the goods and try to use it for the best..
Grateful for the bads and turn it to build strength to carry on..

Keep it up!!
You can do it!..
You’re doing great..

Snap out of it!!..
Get over it!..
Carry on..